The Help

The Help by Kathryn Stockett - Four Stars

This book has been on my radar for awhile and I’m a little embarrassed to admit it has taken me this long to read it. But I kept finding other things I wanted to read first. Then one of my good friends and book-recommenders said that this was the best audio book she has ever listened to and I absolutely had to hear it. I checked my local library and found that I would be in the high 80's on the waiting list for the audio book and decided that I would just go ahead and read the nice hardback that was waiting for me on my bookshelf instead.

The Help rates a solid 4 Stars. I was debating going 5, then decided that the fact that I was debating it meant it was a 4. A 5 star would not require any debate. But I really enjoyed the book. It’s about Mississippi in the 1960's and the relationships between white women and the black women who work for them, told from the perspective of two black women and one much younger white woman. The narrative hops between the three women and is very impressive with how each woman’s voice and language is distinct and identifiable. The plot is a little slow to develop but your interest is held by the stories and descriptions of what life was like during that place and time. Even when the plot did begin to develop I was still more interested in the stories and relationships between all of the women than in the actual plot events.

Each of the three women grow and experience character development to different extents. My favorite parts were the relationships between all of the women. The employers and the employees and other family members. These women would essentially let their help raise their children, some would become part of the family, others would feel as though they were less than the hired help, and in the end the kids who love their nannies so much, grow up to become their employers. The relationships between the hired women and the children were what got to me the most. There were several moments where I teared up, and one truly heart-wrenching scene where one of the women has to say goodbye to the two children she has essentially raised since birth.

While it is a fascinating glimpse into a world of change during that time in history, I think the true beauty of this book is its description and insights into the relationships of women. In identical circumstances some women grow together and form unbreakable bonds while others bring out the worst in each other and become lifelong enemies.

This is an amazing read for its historical aspect as well as its revelations of women’s behavior and relationships. I recommend it to everyone, particularly women.

I’m still waiting patiently for a copy of the audio book (I’m up to the low 40's!) and look forward to listening to possibly one of the best audio adaptations ever.